SINGLE AND SATISFIED (2)
God’s words are reliable and soothing, and a manual for life. If you truly want to make the most of your life you have to rely solely on the words from the mouth of God. Today, I bring to you God’s Word in the second edition of this month’s series Single and Satisfied, I will be teaching on the subject: How to Live a Single and Satisfied Life.
As a single, find your happiness, visions, dreams and purpose before marriage. Marriage is only but a plus to you when you have other aspects of your life organised and planned out. Marriage will enable you enhance all you have built over the years. Although marriage enhances happiness, and relief in certain areas of life; however, on the same note, it increases distractions because you will be responsible for the other person by trying to help someone else grow, develop and improve.
So, these following tips can enable you live a single and satisfied life while waiting in preparation for marriage:
Connect with God
As a single, it is pertinent you seek to connect with God. You need God the most in your single days and also in marriage, if you are able to connect with God as a single; then it will be easier for you to connect with Him as a married person. Spirituality is the greatest asset you can gain as a single; you can deeply connect with God, know Him for yourself, discover who He is to you and establish a lasting relationship with Him. The Bible reiterated in 1 Corinthians 7:35, that your single days are the days of undivided attention and devotion to God and His work. Consequently, devote yourself to God by constantly reading, studying and worshipping God knowing that this is the most viable time you have for Him.
Connect with Friends
To be single does not mean you should be lonely. Loneliness leads to anxiety, nervousness, depression, anger and many other vices that is associate with it. Seek godly relationships and friendships whereby you share knowledge, understanding, counsel and grant each other companionship. Be kind, approachable, friendly and with the right disposition at all times; remember, no man is an island, when you chase people away from you, you may end up being miserable but this will not be your portion, in Jesus name! You cannot marry your enemy, but you will marry amongst your friends; so, if you do not make friends there is no way you can stay in marriage because friendship continues even in marriage.
Pursue Your Passion and Purpose
Your life should not be on pause because you are single; rather, this is the best opportunity to pursue your passion and purpose for life. Do you know marriage becomes easier when you and your partner know you are fulfilling purpose? It is interesting to know that when you are pursuing your purpose, it is easier for you to identify who to marry. You can easily find who to marry when you find your purpose and walk towards accomplishing them.
Invest in People and God’s Kingdom
The best kind of investment you have to make as a single is to invest in others and the Kingdom. You learn how to live married by learning how to live single. During your marriage days, you will be left with options where you will groom, nurture, encourage, and support your spouse and children to become the best they wish to become. However, if as a single you are unable to help someone accomplish their goals, see the needfulness to help someone, or help in Kingdom advancement endeavours then it may be hard to learn it in marriage. Therefore, as a single, invest in people and the Kingdom; this is the most viable kind of investment you can make for yourself.
The act of service is one of the best benefits you can give to others as a single. Rebekah, gave service and God blessed her with Isaac (Genesis 24). You might not necessarily get marriage proposal as a reward for service, but you find so much fulfilment and joy putting smiles on people’s faces. Show genuine concern about people’s needs and be willing to give in your quota. You will definitely get them in return in tremendous ways you never imagined them to come.
Love yourself as much as you wish to be loved as a single. Do not give in to depression, anger, anxiety and fear that you are not going to be married; rather, value the things you have and who you have become, and do not think less of yourself. Appreciate all the good things around you, such as your skin colour, height, hair, friends, family, body shape and structure, and most importantly your health. Ensure you do not go competing to be who you are not and for the sake of seeking validation hide who you truly are. When you love and appreciate yourself people will love and appreciate you.
Singleness is never a curse; rather, it is a must season for every believer to fully utilise and obtain all God requires you to become the better version of yourself. Do not give in to self-pity, you can possibly be single yet satisfied and fulfilled.
Remember, true happiness comes from God and it is only in Jesus that you can find satisfaction. However, if you desire to go through your single years satisfied you have to accept Jesus as your Lord and personal Saviour, by saying this prayer of faith: Lord Jesus, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. I accept You today as my Lord and personal Saviour. Make me a child of God today and grant me the spirit of supplication all the days of my life. Thank You for delivering me from sin and satan to serve the living God and thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom!
Congratulations! If you prayed this simple prayer of faith with me, you are now born again and a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible and pray daily, obey God’s Word, and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21). With this, you are guaranteed a glorious year ahead, in Jesus name! Call or write to share your testimonies with me through email@example.com, 07026385437 OR 08141320204.
For more insight, these books authored by me are available at the Dominion Bookstores in all Living Faith Churches and other leading Christian bookstores: Make Your Life Count, Single with A difference and Salvation the Way of Escape.
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